After spending three years here in Japan, I have come to realize one thing: I don't laugh here as much as I did back home. Is it because I don't have the same friends to hang out with? Yes, that's one reason. Is it because I've become too serious? It may be so. But I cannot go on like this. What actually brought this revelation started with me asking a friend to answer some questions in video format. Things like "When the Japanese students (the ones I teach here in Japan) go to Canada in the fall, what is your advice for them?" When I finally watched the video, though, I immediately knew the majority of the benefit was for me and my mental health. That is to say, in simple terms, I laughed a lot. And I don't expect students to laugh as much as me when I show it to them.
With that, it's my new summer resolution to laugh more. It's not impossible from here; it's just harder. The thing is, I wasn't making it a priority because I didn't see how essential it is. Now I see it! Just five minutes of gregarious laughter made me feel so good. My whole body relaxed and I found myself smiling throughout the whole afternoon. Something I haven't done for a long time. Regardless of all the other things on my mind. The longing for home. The struggles with work. It faded into the background, if even for only a short time.
So let's get our funny on. What makes YOU sound like an obnoxious hyena? Share in the comments section below!
With that, it's my new summer resolution to laugh more. It's not impossible from here; it's just harder. The thing is, I wasn't making it a priority because I didn't see how essential it is. Now I see it! Just five minutes of gregarious laughter made me feel so good. My whole body relaxed and I found myself smiling throughout the whole afternoon. Something I haven't done for a long time. Regardless of all the other things on my mind. The longing for home. The struggles with work. It faded into the background, if even for only a short time.
So let's get our funny on. What makes YOU sound like an obnoxious hyena? Share in the comments section below!
Yeah, I agree with you.
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